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by **Red** » Fri Jan 25, 2008 10:55 pm

Frank.....your ashtray is still icky! :confused:

by **withahip** » Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:04 pm

by **Red** » Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:12 pm

i need a few of these.....

by **blinkilite** » Sat Jan 26, 2008 12:24 pm

Red wrote:i need a few of these.....

that's some good stuff!!! :biggrin:

by **black francis** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:44 am

Is that ice in the cup?

by **starsabove** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 6:10 am

Unfortunately yes - a rather worrying trend of putting ice in cider started by Magners. You can tell a real cider drinker by the look of horror on their face when asked if they want ice in the pub. Who would want it watered down???

Anyway, I thought you guys were after some Addlestones instead?[/b]

by **JackT** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:51 am

starsabove wrote:Who would want it watered down???

Indeed. Then again, who would want cider?

by **Mr. Brian** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 10:48 am

JackT wrote:Indeed. Then again, who would want cider?

chicks who can't get wine coolers anymore

by **blinkilite** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 11:28 am

shut up!

cider is good! at least in england it's good... not the crappy woodchuck variety you get over here in the states.

:cheers:

by **Red** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:27 pm

blinkilite wrote:shut up!

cider is good! at least in england it's good... not the crappy woodchuck variety you get over here in the states.

YEAH! what she said!

and yes starsabove, i would MUCH prefer addlestone's... :mrgreen:

...but i couldn't find a pic to put on here! :lol:

so i went with my 2nd fave! i remember the first time i heard of putting ice in cider...i was in Ireland, and asked if they had any cider and they offered me either a magners or a bulmers, forget which one, think it was bulmers, but anyway, when i said yes i'll have one of those - they asked if i wanted ice in it and i was like huh? :eek:

they said oh you gotta try it. so i did! it's okay, if they give you the bottle, but if they pour it from tap i know what they're up to! ripping us off! :evil:

mmmmmm cider!

and cider is way better than whimpy wine coolers! :rolleyes:

by **JackT** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:51 pm

Red wrote:and yes starsabove, i would MUCH prefer addlestone's...

Sounds like something from Harry Potter.

by **blinkilite** » Sun Jan 27, 2008 10:08 pm

JackT wrote:Sounds like something from Harry Potter.

you didn't know??

we went to hogwarts for a short visit while we were over there

by **moses (2)** » Mon Jan 28, 2008 5:13 am

JackT wrote:Indeed. Then again, who would want cider?

I was at a party once trying my best lines on a very attractive girl when a very drunk girlfriend of a pal comes up to me and asks -- "have you stuck your finger in side her yet?"

totally dumbstruck I look at my pals girlfriend then at the good looking girl -- she says to the pals GF "excuse me but that is now of your business!"

Laughing my pals GF holds up a bottle of Bulmers and sticks her finger in it saying --"Have you stuck your finger in cider yet?"

Needlesss to say I couldn't say much more to the good looking lady after that !!!!

by **Seven Seas** » Mon Jan 28, 2008 7:15 am

Red wrote:seven seas, i just don't understand why you are SO DESPERATE to meet someone RIGHT NOW! i know people who have met online. sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't... but i think most relationships that are meant to be just happen on their own. they aren't *forced* like you're trying to do! who was it that told you that you need to be married by a certain age to be happy? you could be a lot worse off. i mean look...you have a decent job, you're healthy, you're able to just pick up and travel the world when you feel like it, you help people with your volunteer work. you have a lot going for you. if you would just stop looking so hard, you just might find someone around the corner! so what if you're 40 or 50 when it happens? just make the most of what you have right now, and stop beating yourself up with all this. all you're doing is upsetting yourself, and a million other readers all around you, by asking the same questions over and over again every 2 months! the answer is still the same, every time!

xx

by **Red** » Mon Jan 28, 2008 5:54 pm

Seven Seas wrote:Red,

I posted that question online here asking for serious help meaning, if anyone had used an online service to meet someone, that was it. All I've received recently has been grief. As for what you posted about my life, sure it's good but, I'm not loved therefore, I'm looking for it. Plus, my Mom is very, very ill, I have relatives in the service whom I don't see & the most important reason of them all....I'm not loved.

As for what you stated about a million people being upset, let me make it quite clear to you & everyone on this forum. I totally & fully understand that NO-ONE here gives a fig about me. All of you think I'm some kind of drama-queen, attention-seeker. See, that's where all of you are incorrect... None of you really know me to judge as I don't know any of you.....

I've tried to talk to some people in PM & understandably, if there's no responses back, I can't make them do so or be my "friend" for that matter. We all lead busy, active lives & bottom line, some might not want to be friends b/c they're simply not interested. That's there opinion & I'm not negative against that either. It's cool. Therefore, NONE of anyone has a right to judge someone. I mean, unless you're friends w/ people outside of a computer knowing their full & true personality for a long time then, no-one has a right to put down harsh attributes & negatives against another. I would never call someone nasty names, assimulate something that is not physically proven nor intentionally hurt someone by any means of judging them.

I have not done that either, against anyone. I can see that some here think it's amusing to cause ridicule & scope out other information against me. Hey, you can all do what you want just as I'm doing what I feel I want to do too. I would never hold any animosity or trashy thoughts against people b/c I am not clearly one to judge & I live in peace in my personal life. I love all people from whatever nationality, lifestyle & background they're from. I would never, ever post or intentionally hurt people either b/c I know what it's like to feel that pain from the hurt.

Bottom line, I just don't think it's very "fair" for people to think it's funny & clever to post negativities against me when I would never, ever do things like that to hurt people. Hey though, like I've always said, I never hold animosities against others nor would I ever intentionally divulge people thinking it's clever.

I basically posted the questions I have here on this & other forums only asking for opinions & advices from people whom which I thought are cool & friendly. I've been working w/ those opinions & advices to formulate my own & apply it to what I'm dealing w/ in my personal life relating to that one issue.

If you & others would like to be friends & talk, great. I mean, I like A LOT of you but, I haven't even met some of you. The people I DID meet at The Crown pub on Dec. 8, Saturday, I felt were really genuinely & truly nice, caring people!

If not, seriously, I'd appreciate it if some would stop trying to post information from other forums. I mean, seriously, what's so funny about scoping out other information about myself? Two, I would never do that to ANY of you. It makes me appear as that type of person people "think" I am but, obviously is NOT TRUE in real life.

Forums are for people whom are clever & witty though. This I'm not. I know I'm boring, unimaginative, not humorous/jolly, not clever, not witty & seriously intensive. I basically ask what I'm thinking about & feeling while trying to apply it for everyday scenarios. I'm not a psycho or depressive b/c there again, none of you know me personally to assume that.

I'm just tired of always having to explain my feelings likewise, apologize for posts that are simply asking questions. Yet, I do realize, I have went off the deep-end by some of them. This I do firmly recognize as wrong & for those, I do apologize. Yet, I'm still very, very, very hurt from what happened here recently & how people think of me as what I described yet, those people who judged me have never met me nor even simply laid their eyes on me for them to be not-very-nice.

Please, if we could just stop w/ all of this, I'd appreciative as I'm sure would everyone else. I'll shut-up, ok? I won't ask any questions that are intense or "real-life" related anymore & this I firmly promise as of today. Thank you.

However, as I do know I'm wrong w/ a lot of my posts but, I can say to all of you one thing....I would NEVER, EVER, EVER, intentionally hurt ANY of you about ANYTHING.

i was only trying to give you advice, same advice i gave you before, just let life happen, and you may be surprised! that's all. i just don't know what else anyone can say. i think most of the people here have already said they haven't gone looking for relatonships online, so they can't help you either. that's all i was getting at.

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