black francis wrote:Can you suddenly die after a long illness?
yes frequently. Well, it happens frequently to different people, not the same one. That would just be freaky. Obviously people expect that if you have a long drawn out terminal illness that you slowly get worse and fade away, that you'll get used to the idea of them slipping off this mortal coil, that you get a call one day to say 'their condition has deteriorated and you should come and see them', that you pop along and say your goodbyes, or even lie because you know the morphine is in control anyway - you're even lying to yourself because this shell in front of you is not your best mate, or your mum just some vile smelly creature that used to be them - and for some reason they're talking about making sancastles at whitby. They'll gasp a bit, close their eyes and not open them again. You'll walk in the rain and remember the good times. Go for a pint, get angry, get sad, have a cry and then go back to work. But no, fate is a cruel mistress and will take that last goodbye and possibly even the walk in the rain away. There alre loads of diseases that slowly eat away at their victim so that they appear pretty normal, thugh have to go to the toilet alot more than normal and pass blood when they shouldn't (like there is ever a time when you shoud you know). But to the outside world everything seems pretty much in order. You forget, because its not obvious that they are likely to 'pass over', or just die as we pragmatic, tell it like it is folks tend to say. Inside though the body struggles and one day just gives up. And then you get the call to say they're dead and the funeral's on wednesday - donations to charity please. So....., anyone watching the footy this afternoon?
CHez.